The Grudge (WARNING: 26 years to #6?)

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Re: The Grudge (WARNING: It's HAPPENNING!!!)

Post by fractal-machine » Sun Aug 18, 2019 1:48 pm

the chill wrote:
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Welp, the gf just broke up with me this morning. Jesus I was there for her in the hospital and she just knew she was going to do this to me and couldn’t say something sooner. It’s life and relationships, hate that I like being in them.
Wow dude! The whole forum was wishing her the best! :shock: I suppose the best should go to you now! Less than 2 weeks left and everything will just fine :mrgreen:
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Post by ziggy23 » Sun Aug 18, 2019 2:24 pm

Yeah, dude, forget about it, the new Tool album comes out in 2 weeks! You'll find yourself another one gf, sooner or later, this is life) I wish you all the best!
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Post by Kittaan » Sun Aug 18, 2019 2:41 pm

Damn. Lucky you’re so chill, Chill.

Hang in there.
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Post by Boldizar » Sun Aug 18, 2019 3:04 pm

the chill wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 1:21 pm
Welp, the gf just broke up with me this morning. Jesus I was there for her in the hospital and she just knew she was going to do this to me and couldn’t say something sooner. It’s life and relationships, hate that I like being in them.
Duuuude! :o What a hoe. Pull a say anything but blast Ticks and Leeches intsead.
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Post by tys0n » Sun Aug 18, 2019 3:46 pm

She probably made up her mind after you left her on her death bed to listen to the new Tool song.

Not judging, just sayin is all.
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Post by liz » Sun Aug 18, 2019 7:09 pm

the chill wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 1:21 pm
Welp, the gf just broke up with me this morning. Jesus I was there for her in the hospital and she just knew she was going to do this to me and couldn’t say something sooner. It’s life and relationships, hate that I like being in them.
Well tbh she sounded like a bit of a klutz.
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Post by Busty McCracken » Sun Aug 18, 2019 7:39 pm

Jesus man. Chin up. All happens for a reason bro. New tool to help ya get through it coming soon
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Post by 7oolband » Sun Aug 18, 2019 11:45 pm

Mom's gonna fix it all soon.
Mom's comin' 'round to put it back the way it ought to be.

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Post by 7oolband » Mon Aug 19, 2019 12:23 am

chill, bro...

if it helps you take your mind off of your ex gf, did you know that Tool is streaming on Spotify now, and they do not have Maynard's dick in a playlist titled "Maynard's Dick". I cannot even comprehend where to begin.....


so remember there are people having really bad days too, bro. you are not alone!

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Post by rshforgothispw » Mon Aug 19, 2019 5:53 am

Her loss chill

the bright side is new fuckin TOOL in 11 days! best therapy one could ask for.

I’m really digging Maynard’s vocals. Everyone is deservedly giving the boys their credit but I think his vocals are top notch. I listened to H yesterday and put FI on afterwards and feel he’s only just gotten better. The effects are great too! Whoever helped with the atmospheric sounds added to his voice needs a pint cuz it grabs me every listen.

Probably stopping listening to all tool today so I can get a fresh feel going in unless a leak drops.

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Post by Shed523 » Mon Aug 19, 2019 6:48 am

rshforgothispw wrote:
Mon Aug 19, 2019 5:53 am


Probably stopping listening to all tool today so I can get a fresh feel going in unless a leak drops.
Yup same here no leak though 8-30 is so close. Going to see Slipknot and Gojira on the 27th so I’ll be catching up on some older Gojira to pass the time!
That reminds me... Where are the fucking tour dates TOOL? I know they are coming but I want I want I NEED to know...also can’t wait for some new TOOL swag!
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Re: The Grudge (WARNING: It's HAPPENNING!!!)

Post by the chill » Mon Aug 19, 2019 7:55 am

tys0n wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 3:46 pm
She probably made up her mind after you left her on her death bed to listen to the new Tool song.

Not judging, just sayin is all.
liz wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 7:09 pm

Well tbh she sounded like a bit of a klutz.
Those made me lol. Thanks everybody. I was kind of thinking this might happen since she hasn’t said anything really nice to me in a month or two, until yesterday when she said I am a really good guy. Luckily I have a room that opened up at my friends place just this last month. So figuring out a place to live just fell into my lap, so that’s a positive. She wanted me to stay thru Sept to help pay the rent, but our lease is up this month with her friend that owns the place and I don’t see any good that does me. To have to see this person that doesn’t want to live with me, but still loves me. She said she didn’t want to break up with me, but not wanting to live with me and not saying a kind word to me in months besides I love you, it kind of sounds like you want to break up with me. Anyway, just trying to figure out if I should be the nice guy and help her with the rent in sept and stay the month, or thinking of giving her half of my portion of the rent and move out just to be nice, or just move out? Thanks again for the kind messages guys, its been a weird month. New album has kept my spirits somewhat up.

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Post by Tool_User » Mon Aug 19, 2019 11:33 am

the chill wrote:
Mon Aug 19, 2019 7:55 am
tys0n wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 3:46 pm
She probably made up her mind after you left her on her death bed to listen to the new Tool song.

Not judging, just sayin is all.
liz wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 7:09 pm

Well tbh she sounded like a bit of a klutz.
Those made me lol. Thanks everybody. I was kind of thinking this might happen since she hasn’t said anything really nice to me in a month or two, until yesterday when she said I am a really good guy. Luckily I have a room that opened up at my friends place just this last month. So figuring out a place to live just fell into my lap, so that’s a positive. She wanted me to stay thru Sept to help pay the rent, but our lease is up this month with her friend that owns the place and I don’t see any good that does me. To have to see this person that doesn’t want to live with me, but still loves me. She said she didn’t want to break up with me, but not wanting to live with me and not saying a kind word to me in months besides I love you, it kind of sounds like you want to break up with me. Anyway, just trying to figure out if I should be the nice guy and help her with the rent in sept and stay the month, or thinking of giving her half of my portion of the rent and move out just to be nice, or just move out? Thanks again for the kind messages guys, its been a weird month. New album has kept my spirits somewhat up.
Hey dude I got dumped a couple of months ago now. Shit at the time but it feels pretty damn good now! Talking to two lovely ladies at the minute got a new better higher paying job that I couldn't of gone for before and I'm going to either visit the US when Tool hopefully tour in October or go to Hawaai. And back to Oz in January! Not saying that you need it but the best advice I could give is just totally accept what is. Feels really good just surrendering to whatever life throws at you. Things will soon feel 'normal' again so enjoy the weird emotional turmoil while you can.

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Re: The Grudge (WARNING: It's HAPPENNING!!!)

Post by M0G » Mon Aug 19, 2019 12:43 pm

the chill wrote:
Mon Aug 19, 2019 7:55 am
tys0n wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 3:46 pm
She probably made up her mind after you left her on her death bed to listen to the new Tool song.

Not judging, just sayin is all.
liz wrote:
Sun Aug 18, 2019 7:09 pm

Well tbh she sounded like a bit of a klutz.
Those made me lol. Thanks everybody. I was kind of thinking this might happen since she hasn’t said anything really nice to me in a month or two, until yesterday when she said I am a really good guy. Luckily I have a room that opened up at my friends place just this last month. So figuring out a place to live just fell into my lap, so that’s a positive. She wanted me to stay thru Sept to help pay the rent, but our lease is up this month with her friend that owns the place and I don’t see any good that does me. To have to see this person that doesn’t want to live with me, but still loves me. She said she didn’t want to break up with me, but not wanting to live with me and not saying a kind word to me in months besides I love you, it kind of sounds like you want to break up with me. Anyway, just trying to figure out if I should be the nice guy and help her with the rent in sept and stay the month, or thinking of giving her half of my portion of the rent and move out just to be nice, or just move out? Thanks again for the kind messages guys, its been a weird month. New album has kept my spirits somewhat up.
You put up with too much bullshit. If she doesn't want to live with you fuck it dip out and you do you not worth your time man. Chicks pull this shit all the time. She doesn't want to live with you BUT wants you to hang around until September to help pay the rent? Fuck that noise. Pack up your shit and bounce and don't look back.
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Post by tys0n » Mon Aug 19, 2019 1:42 pm

Yeah she's manipulating you man, she knows you're a 'really good guy' and what do really good guys do? Help pay the rent of an ex.

Fuck that.
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Post by liz » Mon Aug 19, 2019 2:21 pm

Well not sure I exactly agree with all the vitriol from the single guys here but if you have a place to move to now then it's reasonable to do that and let the remaining month be her issue.

If you didn't have a place to go and she was insisting you move that's when you'd be pissed.

Anyway feelings can change and it doesn't mean someone is to blame. She probably let things go on for too long because she didn't want to hurt you and does think you're a good guy.

In the end you don't want someone that's not that into you.
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Post by Tool_User » Mon Aug 19, 2019 2:31 pm

Move out staying there is gonna mess with your head big time. Move out move on get shaggin.

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Post by hellboy » Mon Aug 19, 2019 9:11 pm

I think cutting yourself loose is the best way to handle a relationship change.

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Post by Busty McCracken » Mon Aug 19, 2019 10:36 pm

I think you should definitely burn all her clothes, sleep with her sibling, kick her dog and tell everyone she gave you the clap. That's what I would do anyway.
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Post by _peterpwn02 » Tue Aug 20, 2019 1:03 am

be kind, be gentle but get this girl out of your life forever, and i mean forever, there is no need to be friends with exes, especially if you loved them truly. also i would suggest to read No more mr nice guy from Robert A. Glover, will help you to get clean of your ideas like help pay the rent for the ex :D

back to topic, I WANT THIS ALBUM SO FUCKING MUCH

and also, i feel that the grudges i held with tool, disappeared in the last couple of month, especially after the interviews and with the track fear inoculum... everything is cool

i just want this album so much, i want it in my hands, in my ears, i dont know how to wait 10 more days, seems like forever

i got my sound card and headphones for this shit, sitting on the table, feeling alone

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Post by BlackHole83 » Tue Aug 20, 2019 1:27 am

Busty McCracken wrote:
Mon Aug 19, 2019 10:36 pm
I think you should definitely burn all her clothes, sleep with her sibling, kick her dog and tell everyone she gave you the clap. That's what I would do anyway.
Whoa kick her dog, calm down dude. Leave the dog out of it. I concur with the rest.

Once the feelings are not mutual, it’s time to split it and move forward.

Anyways where the fuck is the leak? Geez these guys can’t even get that right

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Post by Busty McCracken » Tue Aug 20, 2019 2:19 am

BlackHole83 wrote:
Tue Aug 20, 2019 1:27 am
Busty McCracken wrote:
Mon Aug 19, 2019 10:36 pm
I think you should definitely burn all her clothes, sleep with her sibling, kick her dog and tell everyone she gave you the clap. That's what I would do anyway.
Whoa kick her dog, calm down dude. Leave the dog out of it. I concur with the rest.

Once the feelings are not mutual, it’s time to split it and move forward.

Anyways where the fuck is the leak? Geez these guys can’t even get that right
Jesus man you agree with everything else and you're telling me to calm down?? Haha
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Post by liz » Tue Aug 20, 2019 2:55 am

^hahaha yeah the dog really got to me too.

I'll be pissed if it leaks.
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Post by Busty McCracken » Tue Aug 20, 2019 3:00 am

Look I love dogs more than most but fuck me you lot are a bunch of savages excusing a good clothes burn , revenge fuck and the spread of lies and allegations. Haha
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Post by tys0n » Tue Aug 20, 2019 3:10 am

Honestly if she's worried about rent just put her back in the hospital for a few months
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